There seems to be a lot of controversy about Asian males often looking feminine or even just straight up gay, because of their styles or actions. It's been said that Asian males who wear makeup or have well groomed eyebrows or even just long hair look like girls! I for one disagree.
To me, Asian guys look really good in leather and guy liner and having good eyebrows. And its because they look good in it that they wear it, not because they want to look girly! There are some really masculine men out there who have that style and just look sexy as hell! True, some can't work it as well....
We also have to realize that culture is different, and some things that are socially awkward here, are not where they are from! Displays of affection between two guys or two girls is very common and acceptable, whereas here it may be a little strange.
In any case, just be accepting of people and don't go casting judgements.
(ps I also think they look good in slinky yukatas....which is also said to look feminine, but i think they look really good)